• Bob@feddit.nl
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    13 hours ago

    My mum’s got a great anecdote about how the doctor came around about my cough when I was a newborn, and he came into a room full of local mums all fawning over me in my cot and chugging away.

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    17 hours ago

    My wife’s family used to mop the walls as part of cleaning.

    It wasn’t until she moved out that she twigged that non-smokers don’t have to do that.

    We’d all put on our scruffiest clothes before visiting my granddad, because they’d be going straight into the washing machine the second we got back. No wonder he kept giving us money, he probably thought we were poor as dirt.

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      14 hours ago

      I was the same way when I visited smoking family, I’d strip at the door and hit the shower when I got home.

      Mopping the walls, my God.

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      18 hours ago

      Dang, was your mom single then? (I’m on my way inventing a time machine).

      I had a similar experience in the 90s, but with a non-cool car - parents bought a TV & to fit it in a tiny car they had to put the back seats down … which left the trunk for me (in a 5-door car, but still, highway speeds, and when I pointed out the safety issues they just said to hold on to a seatbelt … ?).

      The same parents ultra-terrified of me getting in a car accident with anyone (because others are terrible drivers), and to this day terrified I’ll crash my car each and every time Im in it … the patents that totaled a few cars vs me never in an accident and almost keeping up with professional kart racers (well, ““almost””, and even that on my best few laps before ahdh starts fighting me entering a corner).
      Oh, and also the same parents I have to buy tires for against their will & have a few fights with to get them changed.

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          At least you would’ve died in style.

          When i grew up, my friends parents owned a farm that was on top of a mountain, it was like a 10min drive up there on backroads. They drove around a beater car, something like a Suzuki swift. Sometimes we were allowed to ride on the hood, like a bunch of criminals in a 80’s action movie. I remember sitting on the roof once, holding on for dear life. I never really thought much about it, but i would never do that with my nephew. Not because i think they are soft and we were such a hard ass generation, because i don’t want to kill a child. It happens so fucking fast

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            😆

            I don’t remember, for obvious reasons, but I’ve been told that my dad used to put me on the fuel tank of his bike when i was a baby. Like riding a horse through town.

            Edit: and for the record, I would also never drive with my kids without their car seats. And will continue to do so until they are big enough to use a seat belt and shoulder harness properly.

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    There’s all these iconic photos of Walt Disney where he’s pointing at stuff with a two finger point. I’ve heard that some within the company say that this is the example by which their resort employees always use the two finger point to direct guests.

    In reality, he was holding a cigarette and the photos have been airbrushed. He died of lung cancer in 1966. Pointing with two fingers is just seen (kind of universally across cultures) as being non-accusatory. Like, say you saw someone talking to someone else and you cannot hear them (or it’s in a language you don’t understand); they’re pointing with one finger in your direction, you may be inclined to think they’re talking about you. If they’re using the two finger point, you’re less likely to think that… it’s the same for airliner flight crew.

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      That’s an interesting insight into human behavior that I never thought of.

      I remember a long time ago, I was at Boston South Station with my then-girlfriend. We were looking at a monitor on the wall trying to spot when our train home would come in, and I pointed at it to show her.

      A nearby homeless woman then informed me that it’s unpolite to point. That always stuck with me. She was standing right in front of the screen…but now I know, I should’ve used two fingers.

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      Pointing with two fingers is just seen (kind of universally across cultures) as being non-accusatory.

      womp, citation needed. not to be a downer but this would be waaaay way too interesting if true to let it be said without some grounds

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        Sorry, was drunk when writing that. Meant it to be implied that this is what companies tell their employees about why they do it.

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      I’m a former cast member, can confirm. During Traditions (company culture and job orientation/training), they’re taught to point with two fingers for exactly the reason you point out, and Walt Disney is shown pointing like that in the slides. They don’t tell you, but most people eventually figure out, that there’s a cigarette photoshopped out of his fingers.

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        17 hours ago

        Traditions! That’s what it’s called! Couldn’t for the life of me remember.

        Where’d you work? I was a monorail pilot down in Orlando.

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          I was in DAK Dinoland attractions for a while and then I worked in merchandise for a few years in the same park. A friend of mine was a monorail pilot around 2008 or so. Were you in the college program?

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    1 day ago

    This photo could be straight out of my photo album. This looks just like my dad, in hair, beard, clotges, and ciggie.

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    I remember my mom pushing me into the footwell when we were about to hit the ditch in a snowstorm, of course I wasn’t wearing my lap belt, I mean, who did?

    I wouldn’t ride with her for a week after that, she was quite offended.

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    I remember the first time I was at someone’s house and they asked a visitor who who was about to light up to take it outside. It seemed so.odd. My mom, grandmother and aunts would sit around the dining room table with a thick haze. Nobody thought nothing of it