• webghost0101@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      475·
      6 months ago

      This is a mutual experience that many people can relate to but its mechanics is also core Adhd where this scenario is more extrme and frequent. (Possibly even with important life choices and not just hobbies)

      Normalize acknowledging the smaller neurodivergent features that exists in most people as it can help them understand major ones. but do keep it distinct from “everyone has a bit of adhd/autism/anxiety” which is tonedeaf

      • Transporter Room 3@startrek.websiteEnglish
        181·
        6 months ago

        Normal people: “this is SO me!” last done 2years ago

        Neurodivergents: every month

        COMPLETELY unrelated, I have about $800 worth of RC equipment to make my own planes and cars, and haven’t touched it in over a year.

        I want to break it out and make use of it to get my money’s worth, but apparently I don’t want to want to…

        My 3 year old calligraphy set has only been used twice, and not even for the purpose they were purchased.

        • webghost0101@sopuli.xyzEnglish
          13·
          6 months ago

          I have a really nice set of whittling knives from the time i was passionately experimenting with a borrowed knife.

          Guess how much time i have whittled since acquiring that set?

          In my defense apparently i missed out on a free tiny whetstone because i bought on a local farmers market rather the amazon page. From this i have convinced myself i need to master knife sharpening and maintenance skills first so i don’t abuse my set.

          • shneancy@lemmy.worldEnglish
            4·
            6 months ago

            oh that reminds me, I need a proper whetstone, the metal rod thingy from tesco’s is just not (making it so my knives are properly) cutting it

            • Ashyr@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
              2·
              6 months ago

              A honing rod and whetstone fulfill different functions. You should ideally be using both for knife maintenance.

                • Ashyr@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
                  3·
                  6 months ago

                  So the fine edge of the blade can warp as you use it. The honing rod helps straighten that back out to improve cutting. The whetstone actually removes bits of steel in order to create a new edge. Honing should be done regularly, but using a whetstone to sharpen the blade is periodic.

        • Nommer@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          2·
          6 months ago

          I’ve got over 1k in flight sim equipment that I haven’t touched in 4 years but tbf i did stick with that hobby for about 10 years

          • flicker@lemmy.worldEnglish
            10·
            6 months ago

            Yeah. The lockpicking tools I use and want to use and can’t use is just nOrMaL bEhAvIoR u guiyzz!!

            We have ADHD. One of the hallmarks is hyperfocus. We will, several times a year, sometimes a month, hyperfocus on a “hobby” and do it every moment we’re awake and not at work or school (to the neglect of eating or bathing or sleep) and then, at random, be unable to do it anymore to the point where we can’t, even if we want to.

            This is an ADHD community. When you see us complaining about “normal” things, we simply aren’t putting in the thirty caveats that explain why this thing we’re complaining about isn’t “normal,” because we don’t have to explain ourselves to other people with our conditon.

            And there is nothing more annoying than hanging out in a safe space for your condition and having people constantly show up to try to explain that this is “normal.” It’s not. We know it’s not. There’s books about it. Studies about it. We just shouldn’t have to explain the background details of what makes this abnormal every goddamn time!

    • The Cuuuuube@beehaw.orgEnglish
      121·
      6 months ago

      Okay but does seeing the blender after the honeymoon period fill you with guilt about your lack of discipline to stick to something?

    • Blastboom Strice@mander.xyzEnglish
      91·
      6 months ago

      Aaaalmost happened to me, unti one I day I thought about putting inside a cup of milk, a banana, 1-2table spoons of greek yogurt and a vanilla icecream protein poweder scoop (from ON if it matters). I made my blender useful again and found a simple and quick breakfast :)

  • FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3·
    6 months ago

    Even better when you move in with someone, you have two blenders and still never use them. I’ll do smoothies tomorrow, for sure.

  • werefreeatlast@lemmy.worldEnglish
    2·
    6 months ago

    Excuse me while I make my shake for 12:30. I know this meeting is about monkeys and such, but the shake must be done.