Who cares? Lemmy is literally beta software and it isn’t corporate growth driven social media. Also it doesn’t have to replace anything. I use a lot of apps. I use both Lemmy and Reddit and always have. I have Instagram too, I also use both Twitter and Mastodon. I have Signal, Snapchat, Linkedin and Nextdoor.I like Lemmy, it is different than Reddit and that is fine. I like it better and have my own server.
You can show up in any country on a tourist visa then work in restaurants, try and enroll in school or figure out how to kick it til you get residency. It is not impossible, That’s how everyone in my family (around 45 people) moved from Iran to the US and Europe over the past 40 years