• HauntedCupcake@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    You meant they should stop having emotions? Rather than stop defending themselves?

    The statement is making a large generalisation about a group that they’re part of. With every single other group it’s socially acceptable to find that offensive, yet these men are expected to “to take it like a man” and not get upset?

    I’m not saying they’re right assuming it’s about them, but it’s easy to see how the mistake can happen.

    • synae[he/him]@lemmy.sdf.org
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      5 months ago

      No, and I don’t know how you’re getting that from what I’ve said.

      In the scenario there is a hypothetical man and a hypothetical bear. There’s no reason to self-insert oneself as the man, except as an excuse to get outraged in a #notallmen fashion. A (real, non-hypothetical) man taking offense to the answer by assuming they are being indicted is just showing his own narcissism by making the hypothetical about himself.

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        5 months ago

        The literal title of this post forces anyone who doesn’t already understand the issue, to then view themselves as said man