• kakes@sh.itjust.works
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    6 months ago

    So when I come across such profiles, I just reject myself on their behalf because they’re never going to swipe right on me.

    I know life can be tough, and I obviously don’t know your whole picture, but you need to work on leaving this way of thinking behind. Shoot your shots, man - in dating and in life.

    Who cares if they swipe right or left? If they swipe left (left is “no” I assume?) then chances are you probably wouldn’t enjoy being around that person anyway, right?

    But maybe there’s a woman out there that likes your particular style of being a human. Looks aren’t everything - really they account for very little overall, despite dating apps putting so much emphasis on them.

    Just be you, be positive, enjoy your life, and people will naturally want to spend their time with you regardless of how you look or how much money you have.

    • This is fine🔥🐶☕🔥@lemmy.worldOP
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      6 months ago

      Looks aren’t everything

      Did you read what I wrote? I already addressed this.

      When I go to dating apps I usually see women who are out of my league. Not just because they’re very beautiful. They are lawyers, doctors, have their own business or some fancy titles. They have photos taken at exotic locations (I’ve never been to any proper vacation, in or out of the country).