• RealFknNito@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    The fine line between creepy and romantic is how attracted to the person you end up being. I think most of us would put some hair dye in and wear some shades to get a second chance with someone we really wanted an actual shot with. Then again I don’t use dating sites so I’m sure some of the people on there smell more of desperation than a teenager does of axe body spray.

    All I know is I’d bleach my hair and put sunglasses on for the right kind of cute goth gf.

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      7 months ago

      The fine line between creepy and romantic is how attracted to the person you end up being.

      “Fickle females love sneaky creeps, as long as they’re good-looking! Tee-hee!”

      Fuck off with that shit.

      Creep shit is creep shit. End of story.

      You’re the kind of person women warn each other about.

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        7 months ago

        And you’re the kind of person that’s so wrapped up in their own personal experiences they think their anecdotal bullshit can be applied generally. That concept you have such a fucking issue with has been a societal meme for years. Creep shit is only creep shit when you’re not into the person doing it. I had a girlfriend who found it sweet that I texted her every day to let her know I was thinking about her, got on me if I forgot a day. Shit happened, got with someone else, they were super uncomfortable with how often I tried to keep in contact with them.

        Not everyone is the same and shit that you don’t like isn’t just “creep shit” because you’re not into it. But you know, you do fit the archetype of a bitch by immediately writing off everyone with a contrary opinion to yours as “the kind of person women warn each other about.” Please - warn everyone who considers you a friend because my god I want to be as far away from anyone who can so much as even tolerate you as I possibly can.

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      7 months ago

      I think most of us would put some hair dye in and wear some shades to get a second chance with someone we really wanted an actual shot with.

      No. I think you’re just assuming other people would do the creepy shit you would. This would never have even crossed my mind.